MESSAGE SERIES
These series of related talks are well suited for multi-day events and weekend retreats.
Getting Your Joy Back
This retreat series is basically "The Best of Sue Bohlin." I share my story of grace and God's "power tools" for reclaiming (or finding for the first time) the joy God intends for us to live in.
The Freedom Series
Jesus said, "If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." I explore four different perspectives on experiencing freedom from various kinds of bondage.
-
Freedom From Our Past: Many of us are shackled by guilt and shame, but God can set us free from these kinds of chains.
-
Freedom in Our Present: We can stay imprisoned by the lies and misbeliefs that have become tapes that play over and over in our heads. Replacing them with God's truth is the key to being set free.
-
Freedom Through Forgiveness: It is essential to understand why God wants us to forgive those who have hurt or offended us, so that we entrust them into His hands and be freed from the burden of unforgiveness.
-
Freedom for the Future: Fear of different things can keep us imprisoned, unable to smile at the future like the Proverbs 31 woman. But trusting in God can dismantle the fear and set us free.
The Power of Being a Woman
We don't have to struggle for power when God has made power intrinsic to femininity, especially when we align ourselves and our values and lifestyles to His heart. I explore the feminine face of God as He releases His power in our lives:
-
The Power of Beauty: The world's superficial definition beauty is empty and fleeting, but biblical beauty, true beauty, is that of a beautiful heart, a gentle and quiet spirit that is precious to God.
-
The Power of the Holy Spirit: The same power that raised Christ from the dead is available to help us live our everyday lives. This message is replete with a number of powerful visuals that usually have a great impact on the ladies.
-
The Power of Influence: Women have influence. Period. The question is, do we use it for good or for evil? We look at a number of influential women in the Bible and discuss the nature of influence itself.
Princess Series
Three messages for a weekend setting originally created for the theme "Daughters of the King—Bring On the Bling!"
-
Daughters of the King: What does it mean to be a princess? Real beauty, intimacy with God, community with other "royals."
-
Real Bling: What are true riches? Wisdom and power, knowledge, grace, glory
-
Bling Tarnish: Some of the things that can diminish the brightness of God's glory in us, His radiance that allows us to sparkle and shine. Shame, self-pity and unforgiveness.
Spiritual Warfare Series
Part 1: The Armor of God
Part 2: Prayer
Boundaries Series
OTHER MESSAGES
Changing Our Negative Self-Talk
I identify a long list of lies ("old tapes") we tell ourselves, messages from parents, childhood classmates, the media, and ourselves. We are in bondage to these tapes, especially if we don’t even realize they are there. After identifying each lie, I provide the biblical truth with which to fight the old tape.
A Gentle and Quiet Spirit
This is a study of 1 Peter 4: 1-6, in which I examine the beauty of a godly life, the beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, and the beauty of a submissive heart.
Seven Secret Passions of a Woman
- To be a difference maker
- To connect with other women
- To know truth
- To fill the hole in our hearts
- To be beautiful
- To have fun, to feel alive
- To be loved and cherished by the Ultimate Lover
An Accurate View of God
Instead of trying to feel good about ourselves by comparing ourselves to others, we need to look at God Himself, since He is the source of our true worth. I discuss 8 attributes/characteristics of God and what impact these have on us as His children:
- Sovereign
- Creative
- Faithful
- Provider
- Father
- "Fruity" (spiritual fruit)
- Safe Place
- The Divine Bridegroom
Why and How to Forgive
This message was given at a retreat attended by young people struggling with same sex attraction. They had all experienced various kinds of woundings in their past, and I presented a rather colorful explanation and demonstration of how forgiveness is a necessary part of healing.
Becoming an Encourager
- Principles of Encouragement
- How to be an Encourager
The Mother Heart of God
I was privileged to give a "Message to Moms" at Still Water Community Church (Rowlett TX) on Mothers' Day 2009.
In this message I explore the nurturing, tender heart of El Shaddai, "The Breasted One."
Let's Get Real! Transparency and Authenticity
Transparency and authenticity are bedrock values of vibrant lives, families, organizations and churches, where people are encouraged to drop their masks and be genuine. This message provides illustrations of what transparency and authenticity look like, as well as characteristics of safe people, which are necessary for these values to flourish.
The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands
Dr. Laura Schlessinger's book, while not explicitly Christian, provides a biblical foundation for honoring and blessing husbands in ways that support their divine design as men, meets their God-given needs, and helps build strong healthy marriages.
Watermark Plano Christmas Coffee 2017
What if Mary and Joseph had followed the postmodern mindset of valuing feelings above all else? Feelings are real but they're not reliable. What should we do instead of following our feelings? Trust God.
Apologetics
Thinking Like Jesus Does
Some of this is material from Probe Ministries' Mind Games conference, discussing some of the big questions in life and in our culture:
- How do we explain the fact that people do both good and evil?
- How do we know the difference between right and wrong?
- Where did the universe come from?
- Why do bad things happen to good people?
- Does God hate me when trouble comes?
- What happens to a person at death?
- Are angels real?
Is Jesus the Only Way?
Jesus claimed to be the only way to God. Doesn't that make Christianity narrow, arrogant, and hopelessly exclusive? We need to examine Jesus' truth claims and the evidence that He is who He says He is. Then it's simply a matter of truth.
Oh No! What Do I Say to This??!!
A series of questions that come up from living in our sex-saturated, self-centered culture,
and answers from a biblical worldview. This talk was given at a Dallas Seminary women's leadership conference.
The Value of Suffering
This message was given at Probe's 2008 Mind Games Conference. It followed my colleague's presentation of the
philosophical framework for understanding the problem of pain and evil; I was privileged to provide a practical
and very personal framework for seeing value in suffering.
(It opens with the soundtrack to the Nooma video "Rain," which I showed at the beginning of the lecture.)
- It prepares us to be the Bride of Christ
- It allows us to minister comfort to others who suffer
- It develops humble dependence on God
- It displays God's strength through our weakness
- Suffering gets us ready for heaven.
Sexuality
Understanding Homosexuality (for Students)
A Houston-area Christian school asked me to address their 5th-12th graders during a chapel service about homosexuality from a redemptive, biblical perspective. I encouraged the students to not accept the lies of the culture about this issue, give themselves grace to finish growing up, and how to be kind to those who struggle.
Helping Teens Understand Homosexuality (for Teachers/Parents)
Youth are bombarded with a huge number of lies from the enemy about sex and pressure to make decisions about their
sexuality that God never intended. This messages, given at ACSI (Association of Christian Schools International), equips
teachers and others who care about teens to help them think through this difficult issue.
Thinking Clearly About Sexual Confusion
At a Dallas Seminary women's leadership conference, I addressed the subjects of homosexuality and transgender within the larger context of worldview and cultural strongholds about sex and "authentic self."
Emotional Dependency: The Core of Lesbianism
This message is drawn from Lori Rentzel's classic little book, Emotional Dependency, which describes the heart's longing to find its home in another person's heart. The relational idolatry inherent in ED is the core of lesbian relationships, although anyone can find him- or herself sucked into this unhealthy way of relating to another.
Talking to Parents About Homosexuality
I spoke to parents of younger children and high schoolers at Bent Tree Bible Fellowship (Dallas, Texas) to equip them in their parenting skills and to help them think compassionately and biblically about this issue that threatens the church like nothing else. I also addressed their questions such as how to talk to kids about gender-confused people they see.
Ministering to Women with Same-Sex Attraction
The rainbow world of LGBT has become part of American culture, but how should the church minister to the people impacted by it? My perspective is shaped by 18 years of a front-row seat of watching Jesus Christ transform people dealing with unwanted homosexuality through Living Hope Ministries. In this message I provide understanding about the origins of female same-sex attraction and how to walk with women who identify as lesbians. |
